eHarmony For Horses - If I Knew Then What I Know Now

I have been pretty lucky in my selection ofin a very long time (it costs only $125 to adopt a
horses... until now. Starting out, I had trainers whomustang). Wow, Walker was genetically and
helped me pick the best horses for myconformationally built to spin, stop, and lope circles.
temperament. My temperament can be summedHe was the perfect reining horse.
up in a single phrase: "I want to win!"The only problem was that Walker was not the
Luckily, my trainer helped me pick out a goodperfect reining horse for me. He and I do not
match for my first real long-term equine partner:have matching personality types. I have to admit
Marcus. Marcus didn't necessarily want to win, butthat Walker was an impulse buy and that I never
he did want to please. In wanting to please me,stopped to consider his horse personality type
we won a lot. Marcus had an Earth horsebefore I bought him. It turns out that Walker is a
personality, so he was always willing to please asShao Yin (Fire/Water) horse personality, which
long as I brought treats, plenty of treats. Earthmeans that he is eager to please but also among
type horses work for food.the most fragile of all the personality types.
Next, I had a couple of geldings I did fine with,When Walker gets a small cut on his leg, his entire
and then I moved into the big adventure ofleg swells up like a balloon. When one of my
training mustangs. When you go to pick out amustang mares gets a cut, they don't even
mustang to adopt, unless you are planning tonotice it. When Walker gets a stone bruise, he
adopt one that has already been halter-broke orlimps like he needs hit foot amputated. When the
started under saddle, you basically get to choosemustangs get a stone bruise, they lope a little
your horse from a distance.slower on trail but otherwise don't care. When
Walker gets his feelings hurt, he doesn't react
Mustangs: A Whole New Worldoutwardly, but immediately develops some kind of
I get all of my mustangs from the Canon Cityearth-shattering ailment. When the mustangs get
facility in Colorado, where BLM and the inmates atupset, they have great fun refusing to be caught.
the prison facility work together to house,Are you starting to see the difference here?
maintain, and train a bunch of mustangs (soon toThere is, of course, nothing wrong with Walker.
number around 3,000). When I want to adopt aHe is a dream horse for most people. He will try
mustang, I drive 6 hours to facility on a scheduledhis heart out for me and I love him dearly for his
adoption day, join a group of adopters, andkindness, gentleness, and sweetness. I'm just not
wander through this giant facility.used to dealing with horse personality types that
Most of the mustangs are fairly wild, so mostlyare "hothouse flowers." Had I known Walker was
you stand outside a pen that holds between 30a Shao Yin before I bought him, I would have
and 500 mustangs, and you try to "pick" one thatnever bought him because I know that I am not
you think you would like. I've been lucky. My firstthe nurturing type. I'm a no-holds-barred tough
mustang mare was Bella (you can read about herzen cowgirl who needs a horse just as tough.
here), a gentle mare with an Earth horseThe Moral of This Story
personality. Again, as long as food was present,So, while Walker and I are learning to get along
everything was fine.together, I thank him for teaching me a valuable
My next mustang mare, Valentine, had a Woodlesson:
horse personality. Her motto, "I will win!" matchesAlways test the personality of the horse you are
mine pretty well. As long as we both want to winabout to buy before you buy him.
at the same event, we are unbeatable. On theThe test, which is the equivalent of eHarmony for
events where we don't agree, forget it. You can'thorses, is free online at Horse Harmony Test. You
"make" Valentine do anything she doesn't want tocan read short summaries about the different
do. But generally, I "ride the horse in the directionhorse personality types on the Horse Harmony
she's going," and we get along fine.website. Better yet, get the full scoop by reading
After that came three more mustangs, all withthe Horse Harmony book.
suitable horse personalities. All of them had strongFigure out what type best suits your personality,
personalities and could withstand some fairly toughthe discipline in which you ride, and the
training in multiple events. We do everything frommanagement style you have. Pick the right type
team penning and sorting, to hunter/jumper andand you'll have a match made in heaven. Pick a
barrel racing. Fun stuff.type that's a little bit of a mismatch, and you
Along Came Walkermay be looking for a different horse within a
Then I got interested in the sport of reining, and Ishort period of time. So take the test (you can
was told in no uncertain terms that my mustangstest yourself as well as any potential horse) and
had neither the conformation nor geneticlearn something about you, your existing horse, or
background to be reining horses. So I boughta future horse. It is fun, it is free, and it is a
Walker, my first "expensive" luxury-model horselearning experience!