Guide to Connection Part 2 - How is it That We Can Ride Horses?

How is it that we can ride horses?chubby but strong little horse came bolting
This is not a mechanical question. Nor can itthrough. He was a strawberry roan, with a mass
cannot be answered in simple terms.of mane that flowed as one long, twisted rope
The horse is one of the largest animals that we,along his crested neck. He had a coat that was so
as humans, have daily contact with. They are alsohighly polished you simply wanted to know what
one of the oldest surviving mammals, dating backhe did to achieve that. In all my show years I had
millions of years. Their ability to evolve and flownever seen anything like it.
should be something (you would think) mostHe challenged me, letting me know under no
humans would WANT to study, yet, through ouruncertain terms that if I had any thought of
relationship with the horse, we have simply takenpredator activity, he would squash me like a bug. I
their physical attributes and for the most part,quietly retreated, but that night I was awake for
exploited them in our history.hours, pondering the 'chance' meeting.
The very size, temperament and longevity of theThe next day, and for the rest of the month, in
horse suggest this animal is not one to work andtypical 18 year old fashion, my job took a back
train easily. Yet just the opposite is true, even toseat to this group of new friends. I did not dare
the point where the horse allows us to brutalizeget close, but strangely enough I wasn't looking
and mistreat him upon minimal initial contact.for contact. I was happy to be the observer, but
What other animal can be ridden within hours ofobserving a band of wild horses was much
meeting?tougher than staking claims. Although my friends
We as humans have always considered ourselvesvisited the meadow occasionally, they moved
the most evolved life form on the planet. Thiscontinually, and there were days that I had to
being a truth, it would seem that we would havewalk for miles just to find them. Their ability to
the tools and abilities necessary to be able torun over hard terrain and move at a second's
connect with all other life forms at their level. Yet,notice with such grace inspired me and changed
for the most part, this is not true.my thinking forever. I rarely shod my horses
Did you ever just look your horse in the face andagain after that encounter.
feel him ask "Are you ready yet? When will weAre there moments in your life you will always
have a dialogue that I can understand?"remember, and when your final hour is upon you,
No living or non-living thing on this planet has beenthese will be the defining moments you revisit
created without plan; without purpose. If youjust before you leave this planet? This wild horse
believe this, then perhaps the real question isexperience will be at the top of my list when it's
"What role does the horse have with us? Whatmy time. I only keep those memories that
are we to learn here?"empower.
There are no teachers on this planet. EveryThe Journey To Connection
human in a teaching role is the mirror for learning.How can we get there? How can we begin the
Giving and teaching is a higher form of learningjourney of connection while having gone through a
and receiving. Therefore, as we work withtraditional learning experience? Can years of being
horses, who is taking on the higher task of giving?drilled under rigorous training and methodology
The horse or us?hurt or enlighten us?
Horses help get us to the place where we wantI believe that you will have a difficult time
to be. How can we, as humans, recognize this?understanding black if you've never seen white.
If we are a predator, why can we join with theWe live in the world of duality. It's all around us.
horse so quickly? Our egos tell us that we haveBut can we achieve the higher connection with
these great skills that allow us to train better,the horse just by being with him? Is it simply
quicker. Yet isn't it the horse who decides thismankind's refusal to change that keeps man from
relationship? In any initial meeting, it is not thelearning the truths about horses, and opening up
contactor who makes the decision of whether orto the higher relationship we humans were meant
not a relationship will go further. Isn't it then, theto experience on this planet.
horse that has the ability to see through beingTo begin the battle of working and accepting
today's dinner, and allowing contact with us?change easily, we can only start with small steps.
Perhaps horsemanship is about the way weBy watching the teachings of people whose spirits
connect with the horse, as opposed to theconnect with horses, it may give us the chance
mechanical motions we go through.to ask questions (within ourselves). Not everyone
Horses without humansis going to resonate with this style quickly or even
I took a summer job at 18 for 4 weeks,at all. But by being around the horse and just
surveying and staking claims for a mining'being'; not expecting specific outcomes, not
company in the BC interior. I was completelytraining for tomorrow, but just living in the
alone in the bush for the entire time. At weekmoment and taking in what that has to offer, can
two, I was walking through thick underbrush, and'plant a seed' within us that, once initiated, has no
came across the most beautiful natural clearing Ialternative but to grow.
had ever seen. The grass was incredibly green,Beyond our physical realm lie the answers to our
and the entire meadow was surrounded by oldquestions. Is the horse on this planet for the
growth forest that felt 'enchanted'. I received thispurpose of us to ride or for us to learn from and
energy for about two seconds, when I began togain insight? Or both? I am simply putting this out
focus on a group of large animals standing deadthere for you to experience at your own time, at
still.your own speed. It is all a solo journey.
I had walked into a band of wild horses. Not aPerhaps we need to ask these questions first,
single one fled the scene, but every head was upbefore the question of which bit to use, when
and every eye was on me. Neither party feltfirst beginning a relationship with the horse.
fear. Through the middle of the herd, a rather