| My tried and true hot notes I've came up with | | | | the pasture...so the horse gets use to seeing it. |
| over the last thirty years are coming to you right | | | | He'll eventually go out there by it, eat grass |
| now. These tips are so private I should not even | | | | around, etc. Finally he'll touch it with his nose. |
| be giving them away because they're with | | | | The next thing you do is get a bucket of oats |
| thousands of dollars. I mean, if you had to pay | | | | and lead him up to the trailer letting him eat some |
| for them at a seminar or if you purchased CD's | | | | oats out of the bucket while your holding it in |
| or books. But I'm a nice guy and I believe in the | | | | your hand. In your other hand your holding the |
| playing it forward theory. This theory came to | | | | horse's lead rope attached to his halter. Then you |
| me when I was training some horses. Horses? Do | | | | get up in the trailer with your bucket of oats in |
| I mean people are like horses? Of course not! | | | | hand. Don't spook him! If he doesn't want to |
| That's just when the idea occurred to me. But | | | | come up in the trailer don't force him. Try it again |
| first let's see what Wikipedia says about public | | | | the next day. Eventfully, by day 4, 5, or 6 he'll |
| speaking. | | | | come up in the trailer to get to the bucket of |
| Wikipedia: Public speaking is the process of | | | | oats. As he comes up into the trailer you exit out |
| speaking to a group of people in a structured, | | | | the side door at the front. |
| deliberate manner intended to inform, influence, or | | | | I know your wondering how do I see a horse |
| entertain the listeners. In public speaking, as in any | | | | pertaining to public speaking? I thought you would |
| form of communication, there are five basic | | | | never ask. You start speaking with larger and |
| elements, often expressed as "who is saying | | | | larger audiences. First you put some dolls on you |
| what to whom using what medium with what | | | | couch in your living room. Then you speak in front |
| effects?" The purpose of public speaking can | | | | of your class at Sunday school. Now your ready |
| range from simply transmitting information, to | | | | to go public. Go to Google and find a and find a |
| motivating people to act, to simply telling a story. | | | | local public speaking group. Everyone takes turns. |
| Good orators should be able to change the | | | | When you get so use to that, like the back of |
| emotions of their listeners. | | | | your hand, your ready for the big crowd. Like the |
| That's a mouth full isn't it! How complicated can | | | | school PTA meeting or something of that size. |
| they make it seem? In training horses it's a | | | | Before you know it you can start getting paid for |
| process of slowly adding more to the metaphor | | | | your public speaking and you didn't even have to |
| your trying to get the horse to learn. Go to fast | | | | buy a horse! Like I said, that's just when I got the |
| and the horse will balk on you! What do I mean | | | | idea! Now for you hot bonus tip. I'm not even |
| by that? Let's say your trying to get the horse to | | | | charging you $9,000 dollars. The easiest way to |
| load in a trailer. It will take about a week maybe | | | | remember your purpose of speaking on the |
| two to get the horse to load. First thing you do is | | | | subject your getting paid for, is to in some way, |
| just get the horse to get use to the seeing the | | | | tie it into a story about something your very |
| trailer. What you do is park the trailer out there in | | | | familiar with. Yes, yes, just like I did with a horse! |