Relationship Equals Riding (Not) Riding Equals Relationship

If you have been in the horse world for at leastWe really don't have time for real 'natural' horse
the past 15 years, then I know you have heard alltraining, now do we, in our fast paced world.
about the "Natural Horsemanship" training. If youIn the real horse world, another horse does not
look up the word 'natural', which I did forrun a horse around in a circle to get that horse to
arguments sake, (in the American Heritagejoin him.
Dictionary) it says, and I quote: "Present in orI could go on and on. You have to use common
produced by nature; not artificial; of, relation to, orsense when training any animal. Talk to some of
concerning nature; conforming to the usual coursethe people who train wild tigers, bears, etc. They
of nature.don't run them around until they join up, if they
Now please, I beg you to be honest, don't betried that, they would be the ones running around
embarrassed, I fell for the natural 'bull', I meanto avoid being eaten!
horse stuff too! Now, what do you see that is soThey build a relationship first and foremost! They
'natural' about it? Any of it? I have tried them all! Ishow the animal that they care and they are not
am sure that some of the trainers I have tried,going to hurt them and they teach them by
people have never even heard of them. So youfeeding them TREATS! OH NO, I JUST SAID THE
know what I found out in the process? If youWRONG WORD!! Anyway, they build a relationship
have never even met a horse in your life, youand it is done with food and training.
could, if you wanted to, call yourself a trainer!I have trained dogs and groomed dogs for a living
Now, I am not! I repeat, Not! putting these(then came horses)and I was the one who
trainers down. I just feel that what they call theiralways took the 'problem' animal because the
training method 'natural horsemanship' is misleading!other people didn't have the time (which would
But it gets a lot of people's attention especially incost them making money) to help the animal just
the era of everyone wanting things more 'natural'.fix the handling problem with muzzles and
If you want something that is even close torestraints for dogs, stronger bits and restraints
natural training and it still isn't totally naturalfor horses! And of course the next step is to
because you are not out in the wild fields with thedrug them. Yes I worked with groomers who told
wild horses trying to befriend them 'naturally'. Iftheir clients with problem dogs to have their vet
you want to really, I mean really try to get asdrug them before they bring them for grooming! I
close to 'natural' as you can get with trainingactually knew people who would drug their horses
horses, then go do LIBERTY TRAINING! BUT! Thisbefore they ride them because they were to
is not for the timid, or the 'hurry up' person but it'hyper'. Now I know people who drug their kids
is FOR THE REAL HORSE PERSON WHO WANTSbecause they think they are to hyper!
A 'REAL' CONNECTION, A REAL RELATIONSHIPThe one guy who does 'join up' actually has a
THAT TURNS INTO REAL RIDING!timer on his video to show you he can do this in
NO HALTER, NO LEAD ROPE, NO SADDLE!! JUSTso many minutes! Who cares how long it takes!
YOU AND THE HORSE, NATURALLY! The onlyWe need to care about the stress of the horse!!!
thing that is not natural is the arena you are in.We need to care about the relationship and taking
With some of these so called naturalthe time to build that bond! Yes this could take
horsemanship training, you have someone whoweeks, even months and for an awesome bond,
runs the poor horse around and around in a circle,it takes years!
in a round pen for 'join up' and FORCES, YESSo you want good, exceptional riding? Then build a
FORCES the horse to comply.relationship! I promise only then will you have good
Just let the horse be and lets see if the horseriding.
WANTS TO, YES WANTS to join you. Let him beBe blessed building that relationship that will in turn
able to walk away, not walk away in a circle but ifmake for good riding that definitely makes an
the horse wants to really walk away! But youexceptional horse!
know that saying, 'Time is money' and time isPlease remember this:relationship=good riding it is
running out, we need to get that horse trained!not good riding=relationship.